re: cat wranglers.
I was not referring to the urban dictionary definition. The youtube minimovie about the guys herding cats on the open range is what I was thinking.
I got it from a cartoon I saw, maybe in the New Yorker, about "herding" cats.
Anyway, the youtube version of cat wranglers is just about exactly what I mean about coaches.
Anybody who's got more than 2 kids knows how tough it is to keep them on the same task, too. I recall my brother saying something like, "You know, we should have stopped at two. But at least now I know, if we all were drowning and I could only save two of them, one with each hand, which one I'd let go"
He couldn't coach, either.